In March, we're doing a sex series. And we're sending out a direct mail with a picture of some feet hanging out of the bed. It may not be an original idea (lots of other churches have done
something similar). It's sure to spark a little controversy, and generate interest. The intention of the card is not to offend, but to get unchurched people to come visit our service. I understand that reaching the unchurched is sometimes messy.
First, let's be practical and honest. The point of a postcard is to capture the attention of people. In this case, we're trying to get lost people to come to church. I imagine that it will be churched people from traditional backgrounds will be the ones who are offended. But I think it's a waste of our money to send out a postcard that doesn't get noticed.
Many will say that the church shouldn't talk about sex (more on that in another post). Some will say that the image we're using is provocative. I agree that there are lines, and it's possible to go too far. I don't think our postcard does that. I think it's right at the line. I think it would cause an unchurched person to read the back of our card, visit our website, then visit our church. From the start, we haven't tried to steal people from other churches. If other Christians and deacons don't agree with our methods, that's cool...they already go to church. We're not marketing to them.
Offending for no reason is stupid and unwise. Offending people isn't a fruit of the spirit. But peaking interest in something for a purpose is smart. We're not out to offend people on purpose; we're trying to invite everyone to Oak Leaf Church. We believe that if people will visit on Sunday, they will meet some great people, and hear about a great God. They will connect in a small group, and begin to grow in their faith. We believe that people will meet Jesus. And it starts with getting people through our front door...the Sunday services.
Honestly, the front of the postcard makes me a little uncomfortable. I was brought up in a pretty traditional church background. But here's the bottom line. I'm willing to be a little uncomfortable in order to reach people. I'm willing to sacrifice my own comfort in order to see people come to know Christ and turn their lives over to Him. And that's the question I would ask everyone who may not see eye to eye with a particular method: Are you willing to be uncomfortable for the cause of Christ? I'm going to stand on a stage in front of a theater full of people, and talk about a pretty tough subject....TWICE. It's going to make me uncomfortable. But it's not about my comfort, is it?
Some people say, "We'll do anything to get lost people to come to church." That's dumb. There are some things that are off limits...some places we should not go. We don't have a green light to sin in order to reach people. But if it's not sin, and if it will reach people and get people to hear about the grace of God, and the Holy Spirit gives the go ahead, then you go for it.
We're not going to let fear drive what we say or how we say it? I'm not going to back down from an issue because it's hard to discuss, or controversial, or taboo. I'm not going to let what others think determine the content of what we teach. We teach the Bible. And the Bible has a lot to say about sex, marriage, relationships, and love. If we can get people to come hear what God says, then they are going to be encouraged and challenged.
The postcard and even the series might be controversial for Cartersville. But Jesus was controversial. He mixed things up and talked about things that people didn't expect. He didn't spout out the party line. People were offended at his message. Wherever Jesus went, controversy and discussion followed Him. If a postcard can get people talking about church, and get people to come to church, then that's a good thing. I know that when they come, they are going to hear a Biblical message.